High-conflict child custody cases can be stressful for both parents and children alike. Disputes over parenting time, communication or important decisions can quickly turn an already difficult situation into an overwhelming one. In these situations, even caring parents may make choices that unintentionally make custody disputes harder to resolve.
Common mistakes that can escalate a custody dispute
Massachusetts courts consider the best interests of the child when making custody decisions. Because a parent’s actions can affect the child and the custody dispute, it is important to avoid conduct that may increase conflict. Here are three common mistakes parents should watch out for:
- Putting conflict ahead of the child : Parents have to try not to make the conflict a contest between them . Their priority must be the welfare of the child, stability and well-being.
- Ignoring the parenting schedule: Follow the custody order or parenting plan unless there is a valid reason to seek a change. Repeatedly missing parenting time or making schedule changes without agreement can create additional conflict.
- Making accusations without evidence: If a parent has concerns about the other parent, they should keep records of relevant incidents and copies of important communications. They should also avoid making claims that lack supporting evidence.
Strong emotions can contribute to these mistakes, especially when parents disagree about what is best for their child. Staying calm and working together can help parents handle such situations more effectively.
Getting legal help with a Massachusetts custody dispute
Every parent wants their children to have a good future and hopes to focus on their well-being. However, custody disputes can make it harder for parents to put their children’s needs first. A family law attorney can evaluate the case and offer guidance on what they should do in case of a custody dispute.