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Should you get a temporary custody order during your divorce?

On Behalf of | Apr 28, 2026 | Divorce

parenting arrangements, a temporary custody order can protect your relationship with your children during the divorce process.

What is a temporary custody order?

A temporary custody order sets child custody terms while a divorce is pending. The order addresses the children’s living arrangements and who makes important decisions about their care.

These orders typically stay in place until the final divorce decree. However, courts may modify it if circumstances change significantly. For your family, this may help reduce conflict during an uncertain time.

How do Massachusetts courts determine temporary custody?

Massachusetts courts use the “best interests of the child” standard when deciding temporary custody arrangements. Under state law this may include the following factors:

  • The relationship between each parent and the child
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable living environment
  • The child’s current adjustment to home, school and community
  • History of domestic violence or substance abuse by either parent, which can limit custody in cases of proven abuse
  • The child’s preference, if the child is of sufficient age and maturity to expresses a reasoned opinion

Courts also consider existing living arrangements. If the children have been living primarily with one parent, judges may not change that arrangement without compelling reasons.

When should you request a temporary custody order?

In certain situations, a temporary custody order may be necessary. You may consider requesting one if:

  • Your spouse is limiting your access to your children without good reason
  • You have concerns about your children’s safety or well-being in your spouse’s care
  • Your spouse has threatened to relocate with the children
  • You cannot reach an agreement about parenting time or decision-making
  • There is a history of domestic violence or substance abuse

Filing early may prevent your spouse from establishing a living arrangement that favors their preferred custody plan. Courts often consider current routines, so waiting too long may put you at a disadvantage.

Taking action to protect your parental rights

Temporary custody orders may help when parents cannot agree on a parenting schedule. If you face restrictions or have concerns about your children’s welfare, consider discussing temporary custody with legal counsel. Acting promptly can help protect your relationship with your children during this difficult transition.