Many divorces seem to happen out of nowhere, with one spouse filing papers and initiating the process without notice. Other times, a couple talks things over and agrees that divorce is the best solution.
One advantage an agreed-upon divorce offers is the opportunity to prepare. Creating a plan for the pre-divorce stage can help you in the short term and may improve your divorce proceedings.
1. Create a divorce fund
A divorce fund is essential. It involves setting aside money to help cover the costs associated with the divorce process, such as court fees and unexpected expenses that may arise. Begin by assessing your current finances, estimating how much you will need, and creating a savings plan to reach your goal. A dedicated fund can reduce stress and provide security.
2. Separate your finances
This involves opening new bank accounts and transferring your income into these accounts. Additionally, obtain copies of all financial records (bank statements, tax returns, etc.) to ensure you have a clear picture of your finances. These steps can protect your assets and may even help to simplify the division of property during the divorce.
3. Seek safety if violence is a risk
If you fear spousal violence, your safety must come first. Your pre-divorce plan should include finding somewhere safe to stay and reaching out to local resources for finding. Take a moment to consider whether you may need to obtain a protective order, which can add an additional layer of safety to your pre-divorce plan.
Whether your divorce arose from mutual agreement or you were blindsided by your spouse, legal guidance can assist with your pre-divorce planning. A representative can also guide you in Massachusetts protective orders if violence or abuse is possible.